Get Married. Stay Married.

After years of helping couples prepare for the wedding day, I found myself thinking more about what happens after it.

The flowers fade. The photos get posted. The guests go home.

Then comes the marriage.

Get Married. Stay Married. is about putting intention into that part too — through honest conversations, shared experiences, practical resources, and reminders to keep choosing one another on purpose.

Join the Conversation

Marriage deserves just as much intention as the wedding did.

Communication

Sometimes the issue isn’t what was said — it’s what was heard.

Connection

Staying close doesn’t always require a big gesture. Sometimes it starts with making room for each other again.

Choosing Each Other

Marriage changes as life changes. The question becomes: how do we keep choosing “us” through every version?

Make Room for Each Other

Connection doesn’t only happen through serious conversations. Sometimes it happens over dinner, a game, a shared adventure, or an evening that gives you permission to laugh together again.

We’ll be sharing date ideas, couple experiences, conversation starters, and creative ways to intentionally spend time together.

Why This Matters to Me

I spent years helping couples create beautiful wedding days, and I kept noticing how much support exists for getting married compared with how little exists for staying connected afterward.

I don’t have all the answers, and this isn’t counseling. It’s a space for real couples, real conversations, useful resources, and experiences that help us make room for each other.

Kris with a Kay

Helpful Resources

We don’t believe one voice has all the answers. These are books, tools, organizations, conversations, and resources we believe can help couples strengthen the way they communicate, connect, and grow together.